Sunday, January 12, 2014

Marinating ; Not Ageing



Birthdays are like life's little high fives that you survived another year.

A birthday can be seen as a serious or joyful time depending on one's age and one's attitude towards life. Another year has passed and we look back on failures and successes. We think about our goals for the future and reflect on the past year. These are all thoughts that may come up on a birthday, but the main thing is to use a birthday as an opportunity to celebrate life and be joyful for the chance to be with friends and family.

Some notables, particularly monarchs, have an official birthday on a fixed day of the year, which may not necessarily match the day of their birth, but on which celebrations are held.For Example:
Jesus Christ's Birthday is Celebrated as Christmas.
      
But I am no Jesus Christ and my birthday is on 14th January, which coincidentally is a Makar Sankranti.

Makara Sankranti is one of the most auspicious occasions for the Hindus, and is celebrated in almost all parts of India.It is a harvest festival.
Makara means Capricorn Zodiac Sign and Sankranti means transition of the Sun from one zodiac sign to another. Thus Makar Sankranti is the day that marks the transition of the Sun into Makara rashi (Capricorn) on its celestial path.The day is also believed to mark the arrival of spring in India.
Makara Sankranti is a solar event making it perhaps the only Indian festival whose date always falls on the same day every year: 14 January, with some exceptions, when the festival is celebrated on 13 January or 15 January.

It’s hard to not connect birthdays to aging once you reach the mid-forties. Is that really how old I am?
They say,Age is just a number…and truly so..

A co-blogger who writes under his pseudo name Whatho describes the age very succinctly.

"The youngest atom in the body is more than a billion years old. Hydrogen, the most abundantly found element, is nearly 14 billion years old and was produced during the Big Bang. Carbon and oxygen atoms are between 7 and 10 billion years old. In other words, we are really really ancient. What’s another 20 or 46 or 72 years in this cosmic scheme of things?
Cells in our body die every second and new ones replace them. In a sense, we are re-created with each passing moment. A liver refreshes itself in 3 months. Taste buds in 2 weeks. The lung’s surface in 3 weeks. The heart refreshes 2-3 times over a lifetime. Cells in the intestine in 2 days. In fact, only our eyes are as old are we are, not undergoing transformation over time.
So we are made of ancient cosmic dust but renew ourselves in some cases as often as every 2 days and sometimes never?"
So how old did you say I was?
45 years?? 2days?? or14 billion years old??
Okay. Didn’t I say that age is just a number?
Birthdays for sure makes you nostalgic.
“Nostalgia is not very good news for the nostalgic. The elegy of age lies a layer below the surface, trying hard but unable to hide. As the present hurries along towards the future at its usual frenetic pace, the draw of the past persuades one to pause in contemplation, unredeemed by any practical definition of utility. But nostalgia is not the sadness of an end; it is search, melancholic maybe, for nuggets in the rubbish dump of time”.
Birthdays like new year resolutions are the season to take stock of your life, to reflect on what was, and the endlessly optimistic possibilities of what can be
Self-restraint, willpower and commitment are those annoyingly mocking adjectives that everybody else seem to embody except you yourself, which seemingly is really frustrating. But didn’t the great Aristotle say “We are what we repeatedly do”
So the resolution of this birthday:remain the way you are apart from a slight twitch here or there. Plan something doable since you can’t change yourself in one burst…If you haven’t succeeded in changing yourself all these years you won’t in future too…
Live life king-size…that being my mantra I am galloping into the future one year at a time…
Your Wishes and Blessings Solicited.
I am not Ageing,I am Marinating :-)

Happy Birthday to me.!!