LONELINESS

EVERY MAN IS AN ISLAND. In the ultimate analysis ,all of us are lonely,the only difference is that some of us are more conscious of it,whereas others are not.I ,however do not mean physical loneliness.

We may be surrounded by hundreds of people,may be popular in schools and colleges,or we may be beehives surrounded by bees ,but unless we have someone to call our own,some one who can empathize with us;can share our joys and emotions or experiences,our ideas and and ideals ,we are still lonely.The degree to which a person is susceptible to loneliness is directly proportional to the persons intelligence and his refusal to conform to traditional values.

Loneliness is dangerous.Loneliness can totally distort both general approach to life and relationship with near and dear ones.It induces sense of possessiveness and envy.It fosters parasitical relationships,the keynote of which is deadening emotional dependency upon each other.It makes you unsure of yourself ,it saps your confidence ,it inhibits action.Unless we learn to cope with loneliness it can have very grave consequences .Some of the heinous crimes like rape,murder etc.,are committed due to the state of LONELINESS.

There is no magic wand by which we can get rid of the state of loneliness.We have to learn and endeavour to accept the life,its difficulties and problems at its face value,and learn to tackle them rather than quail before them.

Stop brooding over the matter and develop a sense of humour and become gregarious souls .

NO ONE IS FREE FROM THIS STATE BUT WISDOM LIES IN TACKLING SUCH STATE WITH CLEVER SENSE OF HUMOUR AND UNDERSTANDING....THAT IS THE WAY TO HAPPINESS...

My dear co bloggers the intention of the above blog is not to give sermon but believe it or not this was something which I had scribbled in my diary during my school days and my daughter got it and she brought it to my notice after such a long time.... I owe it to her